Pappy Hour – Damned if you do, Damned if you don’t.

Andrew Pap (Mr Motivation) is back on the podcast, for a new regular addition dubbed “Pappy Hour” – where Heston & Pap will talk about controversial and relevant topics. They believe constructive conversations with sometimes opposing views are missing from the way we relate and have decided to simply get together over Pappy Hour, to have more of them.

They kick it off with this episode tackling conversations on: 

– Pap’s journey since they last spoke around a year ago

– Struggle to become pregnant (Pap & his wife… not Heston)

– Breaking the influencer narrative and having an opinion online

– COVID

– Politics 

– The System

– Anxiety driven actions and behaviours 

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Timestamps:

03:43 – Pap’s journey since we last caught up almost a year ago.

04:20 – Struggle to become pregnant 

07:40 – Adversary really builds comrade when you are working together well

10:37 – The importance of just being more human

11.50 – Anxiety driven state

We are living in an anxiety driven state

13:5 – It’s innate in us to have an identity – we are currently geared up to be us Vs them, rather than asking better questions or having an empathetic understanding.

21:00 – Breaking the influencer narrative and having an opinion

23:18 – Human privileges – what we are setting up for ourselves and future generations

25:50 – Instead of questioning the system and the narrative, we are starting to look at each other as enemies which is really problematic 

You’re damned if you do, you’re damned if you don’t

28:04 Why have we been sitting on the sidelines? 

Challenge is imperative for us to evolve and be our best

30:43 – Challenge each other

33:43 – It’s difficult for many to have conversations when people don’t agree with you

35:00 – COVID conversations and perspectives  

47:30 – Ivory Tower Decisions

54:50 – When the system feels like you will live and die by the words you say

58:00 – We need to stop holding people to a post or opinion they had 5 -10 years ago

1:00:00 – Have the conversation

Hope you enjoyed this episode, it was just the warm up.